It has been 7 years since my mom died (but whos counting??

Me, I guess?)

Grief has infused my life with a sense of appreciation I had never had before.

Carrie Fisher and Billie Lourd in 2015

Carrie Fisher and Billie Lourd in 2015Chelsea Lauren / Getty Images

It makes me soak up every moment of joy as if it were my last.

I laughed at myself then cried more cause I was laughing.

As I tell my son, she lives in the stars and she damn sure makes my life sparkle.

Carrie Fisher and Billie Lourd in 2015

Sending my love to all my griefers out there.

And hoping everyone can feel a little sparkle of griefull among all the feelings grief inevitably brings.

See Lourds posts honoring her mother below.

It has been 7 years since my mom died (but whos counting??

Me I guess?)

Every anniversary brings a different iteration of my grief.

I laughed at myself then cried more cause I was laughing.

I felt my mombys presence like the warmth of the sun on your skin on a hot summer day.

The kind

damn sure makes my life sparkle.

Sending my love to all my griefers out there.

And hoping everyone can feel a little sparkle of griefull among all the feelings grief inevitably brings.