Didnt want her to be too mean and silent.
I smile admiringly at the level of exacting detail.
So shes still wearing this cute little middle-class working bun, and I thought it was so sweet.

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Randolph was just as attentive regarding what Mary wore in the schools kitchen.
Her eye was drawn to Leah Chase who for decades ran the Dooky Chase Kitchen in New Orleans.
She wanted you to know, Its me.Im the one.

Dominic Sessa, Da’Vine Joy Randolph, Paul Giamatti in ‘The Holdovers’ (Seacia Pavao / © Focus Features /Courtesy Everett Collection)Focus Features /Courtesy Everett Collection
Randolph and costume designer Wendy Chuck studied swatches of fabric for the work look and for Marys overall look.
Its what all the best thespians do.
The trick is that it has to appear effortless.
And so I wanted to show that so that people could connect to her.
And she wants Dominic Sessas student Angus Tully to have his holiday.
And she wantsPaul Giamattis cerebral classics master Paul Hunham to have some downtime.
The acts of magnanimity are enormously touching.
She can match them in what matters in real life.
Marys wondering why Mr.Hunham stayed working at the school all these years.
Shes like, have you ever thought of leaving these walls?
Hes like, Oh, I dont know.
And she says, Youve never dreamed a whole dream have you?'
Randolphs own parents were educators in Philadelphia where she grew up.
My father was the assistant principal.
My mother was a teacher,and my mother taught predominately kindergarten.
She says the films about life unfolding…which I think Alexander is genius at.
Its very much of a fly on the wall, slice of life.
Nothings happening, but everythings happening.
Its all in the details.
The one movie is the talkies, if you will.
Then the other is a silent movie where I had to fill in those moments with an inner dialogue.
She observes that Hemingsons script would have passages of just setting the scene and the atmosphere.
And then Alexander would just plop me in this environment.
Angus, the student appreciates that Mary has prepared a lovely festive meal for him and Mr.Hunham.
You could tell shes a boy mom.
you could tell she likes boys and she knows how they tick.
She was way better than the actual show.
So, when I see her garnering all this acclaim forThe Holdoversits not as if it happened overnight.
She bloody well worked for it .
She worked and worked for this moment.
And shes enjoying it.
She sighs and says that is been a hard career.Its lots of sacrifice.
Im very grateful though.
I quietly ask what she feels she has missed out on.
I apologize for making her cry.
No, its okay But you know what I mean.
It really is Its a trade off, so to speak, between the two.
None of it just happens.
And if you happen to be really good at it then a part of you comes through the screen.